24 June, 2007

Leather & Lace Night @ CUBE, Canberra

I have been to Canberra once before, about 7 years ago, so I had a rough idea of the city layout. But 7 years on, things were a bit fuzzy in my mind - partly because of all the hairspray fumes I have breathed in since then...

My boyfriend was to drive us down to Canberra for our Friday night gig in a Tarago-styled car, but had work come in over the weekend at the last minute, so we three drag queens decided to jump a bus for the A.C.T!

(Yes, yes - very Priscilla of us I know! Well, Priscilla minus the bus breaking down and the hot heat of the outback - but 3 drags on a bus to a interstate gig nonetheless..)

We did have a ball on the coach though, giggling as Ru fell asleep (dribbling onto her chest! LOL), sharing so many sugar-filled lollies,Tim-Tams and drinks. It was our own little party on the bus! We did have some quiet time at one stage within our sugar-filled high - Charisma reading her gossip mags, Nanna-Ru sleeping and me reading my book "The God Delusion" (Yes I know I have had that book since Xmas! What can I say? I'm not much of a reader!).

Before heading down for our gig at Cube Nightclub, I refreshed my memory of our nation's capital on Google Earth. It's an amazingly designed city - you should jump online and check it out (or go in person!).

The bus trip (only 3 hours) went so quickly for us - a fast bus trip is always a good thing! Before we knew it we were right in the heart of Canberra, delivered right from the heart of Sydney!

The PR/Events manager at the club, Candice, picked us up at the terminal and took us straight to the nightclub to drop off the show costumes and props and to show us the stage, backstage area and club in general.

Cube is such a great venue! It has a sunken dancefloor with different levels to dance on , which is something I always love. A hot addition to the dancefloor was the poles - obviously installed for those who need to test out how sexy your trade can move before you take him/her home! There are some lounge/beds with personal stylish lockers for your valuables on the sides - and an amazing floor near the toilets that reflects rainbow colours! Very cool! In fact there are so many little things in the club's setup that's sensible and stylish - the kind of things that makes a place and give it it's own character.

Now the VIP room, which was our exclusive dressing room for the evening, had comfy couches and a big long aquarium along one wall - gorgeous! It was so secure, we needed swipe passes to come in and out the door, of which of course all three of us were issued with. (We don't get that security in Sydney!)

Candice did an amazing job with our poster, blowing it up to an enormous size and putting it up on prominent display. I even got my name scrolled on an electric billboard in the club! It was all incredibly humbling, but at the same time quite camp! Big pictures/advertisements of us.. my name finally in lights! LOL

After meeting the owner/manager of the club, Morris, and some more of the staff setting up the club for the night, we headed off to the hotel suite we were booked in to. It was nice and close, just 2-3 blocks away..

Candice dropped us of in a gorgeous and spacious 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom suite with a large balcony.. What I couldn't believe was it was all ours! We were being looked after so well!

We ducked out for a quick bite to eat back at Petrie Plaza, then headed home to have a short rehearsal and to take our time getting ready for our 10:30pm arrival at the club.

Morris collected us personally at 10:15pm, taking us straight to the VIP room in the club. We went out to mingle right away, and were met by a friendly crowd who were eager to see our show. Shortly we went back to the VIP room to find 3 large cocktails waiting for us on the glass table! We were certainly being spoilt!

We performed our 3 spot numbers to a very responsive crowd! Charisma performed "Boogie 2nite", Ru sung live "Dancing in the Street", and I closed with "I Will Survive". (I accidentally wrote "I Will Survice" on the CD after I burnt it on my laptop at the hotel - damn Ru Bella was asking about room service at the time! LOL)

After another quick mingle, we were backstage getting ready for the main show, my award winning production, Rough Trade Hers. With Candice's girlfriend Lucy helping us change cossies, we performed the show without any hitches. The crowd loved the show. We took our bows (I sprayed water on the crowd when I did! *giggle*) and headed backstage to quickly pack our show up into our bags.

With the packing done, Charisma and I changed back into our boy clothes while Ru stayed as a girl. We settled in to a fun night chatting and dancing with the patrons and staff of Cube.. That went on til the not-so-wee hours of the morning! We made it back to our hotel suite by about 7/7:30am where the girls decided to stay up until the bus trip home at 10:30am. Needless to say, mindless chatter filled the suite.

After a shower and a fresh change of clothes, I walked the girls to the Terminal just up the road and sent them on their way back to Sydney. From there, I stayed in Canberra and met one of my dear friends Nik, who took me back to his place to do a photo shoot. In the end we didn't do the shoot though, as we got chatting about old times and playing dress-ups in some costumes that we ran out of time. It was good to catch up with him and to meet his sweet boyfriend though! (He later so very generously gave me the costumes to take home - thanks so much Nik!).

Now time in Canberra must be about 5 times as fast as it runs in Sydney, cos every time I looked at the clock throughout the trip, hours had gone by in what I felt was minutes! Before we knew it, we only had a short time to get me to the Bus Terminal for the trip home! So we sped back into the city to arrive just in time for me to board the bus for the 4 hour trip back to Sydney (The bus stopped at Liverpool and the Sydney Domestic & International Airports this time which took an hour longer! Yuk!)

It was an awesome trip to Canberra, and seriously one of the best gigs I have ever done.

My thanks to our Sydney contact, Penny, for asking us to head down to the club, to Morris - the best owner/manager of a nightclub ever! Thanks for treating us like celebrities!, to Candice - for your hard work advertising us at the club and for looking after us at all points in the day & night, to Lucy - for helping us with costume changes and for also looking after us, and of course to the other staff and patrons at Cube for a fun-filled night and a warm welcome to the VERY COLD city of Canberra!

17 June, 2007

A Week Reminded of "Respect"

The last week or so has all revolved around the word "Respect". It has entered my life in a number of ways...

Firstly, RESPECT to my former employer, Dawn O'Donnell who passed away on the Queen's Birthday long weekend . She was the owner of the Newtown Hotel back when I started my first ever weekly production show gig back in January 2001. I only met her a few times while working there, but she was always so supportive of me - she said many times that I was doing a fabulous job for her Hotel.. The memorial service was held at St Canice's Church in Elizabeth Bay on Friday. It was an emotional experience, as such events inherently are, but with the various key speakers from different parts in her life, there was a lot of crying, not-to-mention much laughter in the air as well! She lived a dynamic life, and took many people along for the ride - including our community here in Sydney. As Mitzi MacIntosh said in her speech - "When we wanted to come out of the closet, Dawn gave us somewhere to go".. Well said.

Secondly, RESPECT to the Dalai Lama who gave a wonderful talk to a small and wet gathering of people in the domain on Friday. Heading straight there after Dawn's memorial service was a strange experience, but we had other things to worry about once we got there - the rain! We managed a spot on the lawn relatively close to the stage, but when the Dalai Lama arrived were surrounded by people standing up. Needless to say this little drag queen didn't see anything at all, but I did hear much of his talk. It was interesting to hear him speak about the environment and war/peace, and on the way home, I informed the boyfriend we should go hear him speak in his 3-4 day conference (usually in Melbourne?) next time he visits Australia to get an even broader understanding of his considerable learning.

Thirdly, RESPECT for the environment. Whether global warming, or whether just freak storms or 30 year floods, the damage, loss of life and pain suffered by the wild weather of the last week on the NSW coast is a reminder we should be RESPECTING Mother Nature just that little bit more..

Lastly, RESPECT to my friends (and the general community) on the Central Coast and Hunter Valley. My thoughts were with my friends up on the Central Coast, who continued to experience wild weather again this weekend. I was asked to perform at Krave Friday night and was nervous about how the community would feel. Everyone had a story to tell, but what came across the most was the strong spirit and determination of the individuals and the community as a whole. My admiration to them all..

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Just a reminder that anyone in Canberra this coming Friday 22nd June, CUBE has their own "Leather & Lace Night"! Make sure you come dressed up! Charisma Belle, Ru Bella and I will be there performing our show "Rough Trade - Hers" there, not to mention checking out the punters and their costumes! Make sure you pop in and say "Hi" and support the Premier Canberra G&L Nightclub. See you there!

10 June, 2007

Birthday time..

Today is a short entry as it is my boyfriend's birthday.

As with all partners of performers such as myself, they are a massive support - in every way!

And with that in mind - I won't spend anymore time than I already have on this today, rather I'm leaving all my time for celebrating my man's birthday how he wants..

I hope you have/had a wonderful Queen's Birthday Long Weekend.. (bit sad we don't celebrate it on the old duck's actual birthday... but then I'm a Aussie Republican - so do I really care? No.)

Til next week..

Be safe..

Luv Shelley
xxx

03 June, 2007

On the road again!

Last Friday night, I had the pleasure of returning to Krave.

Krave recently has moved to Gosford on a Friday night and had asked me back again this last week. What I like about Krave is the gay and lesbian patrons mixing with gay-friendly straights to make a wonderful atmosphere. None of the Peel Hotel stuff from Melbourne up there!

Always responsive and friendly, it's great to catch up with friends I have made on the Central Coast over the years I have been working there.

The big thing I love about Krave is the the "Kravey Bunch". The Krave committee, is a small group of volunteers - yes volunteers! - who organise the night known as Krave, to run in a regular nightclub every 1st and 3rd Friday of the month. They have become my good friends, and that is certainly part of the reason I love performing there too!

They have a great security force, who are of course gay-friendly. And yes, I can prove it too! I have footage of me "integrating" the nice muscly security man on the side of stage into my show.. He was happy to oblige!

Since Krave's move from The Entrance to Gosford, there is even more reason to grab some friends and head northwards on the 1 hr trip to Gosford.. If for no other reason than the cute Central Coast boys and girls!

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On the topic of road-trips, Charisma Belle, Ru Bella and myself are heading down to Cube Nightclub in Canberra for their Leather and Lace night, Friday 22nd June. The three of us are looking forward to the patrons dressing up.. (yum!)

We are performing our award winning show "Rough Trade Hers" to the crowd and can't wait to check out our nation's capital over the weekend!

If only we were allowed to climb (in drag no less!) the grassy slopes of the New Parliament House.. How camp would that be! Well I'm sure there is other mischief to be had there, so no doubt there will be stories to tell when we get back! I will try to take pix the whole time for the blog! Nothing too incriminating of course - at least not of me!

Until next Sunday, stay safe..

Luv Shelley
xxx

27 May, 2007

Holding The Man

I had the luck of making it into one of the packed performances of "Holding The Man" last Monday evening at the Sydney Opera House. (Yes I know - I'm probably one of the last gayboys/queens in Sydney to have seen it!) After three seasons in the last year or so, this has been an incredible hit - and not just with the gay audiences! So after so many times talking about going - my partner booked us in for what would be an unforgettable night.

In a nutshell... What a wonderful show! Not only was it performed exceptionally, it was written and staged beautifully too.

Now a bit of background first.. For those who do not know of the book "Holding The Man" by Timothy Conigrave, you must not be a gay Australian male, or you live overseas! I seriously do not know a single person who has not read the book.. It's almost required reading for all gay boys in Australia! (Mind you, those of you abroad, I have heard it's been translated into several languages... I wonder where?)

Anyways, it basically is an autobiographical book about Timothy Conigrave's life, from his teenage years, through to it's emotional end during the AIDS epidemic in Australia. It primarily follows his long-term relationship with his partner John Caleo, but also his relationships with close friends, and of course, his family.

I had the pleasure of meeting Tommy Murphy, a resident writer for the Griffin Theatre, at the Opening Night Party of "Priscilla", and spoke with him about the stage adaption. It was wonderful to see the script move to the stage so brilliantly.. Well done Tommy!

With suitably perfect lighting and staging, it is a stirring account that always leaves the audience emotional, to say the least.

The actors all did an amazing job - there was never a time they were not committed to the character, pulling the emotion from deep inside, and by doing so, were completely genuine and engaging. Special mention to three of the cast in particular - Guy Edmonds (Timothy Conigrave), Matt Zeremes (John Caleo) and Brett Stiller (multiple characters). These three were superb! I wouldn't question what the show was if they were in it.. I would just say - "When are we going?!"

The play was a roller-coaster of emotions, as is the book. I remember reading it when I was attending WAAPA, finding striking similarities between myself and Timothy when he was attending NIDA. When discussing this with people, I find that they feel the same - even though, from outside, it would seem their two lives are poles apart. I believe this has been the reason for the book's/play's success.. It really translates well to every human being.

The book even caused a bit of concern with my lecturers at WAAPA, as I would sometimes turn up to my dance classes with tears streaming down my face! I never thought a book could do that too me!

It really is an amazing story, put beautifully into a book, then re-written, equally as beautifully, this time for the stage. I truly hope this show gets to tour Australia - everyone should see it. It is well deserving to make it into festivals the world over. Of course there are many of these types of stories told all around the world as it is, but this story in particular seems to resonate so strongly with so many people..

A must see!

9.5 Diamonds out of 10

20 May, 2007

Back..

Well I have not written an entry on my blog for a while now - and haven't I been well and truly reprimanded for it?! Absolutely!

A number of emails have come in.. What the motivation for these emails is varied - some people write that they been interested in what was going on in my life, while some worried that I had some personal problems after my family visited Sydney and saw me in drag for the first time... One person simply wrote: "Where are your blogs? R u dead?"

But one person in particular though, gave me a kick up the pants when he sent an email saying he always read my blog every Monday night, and further added: "I'm very disappointed that you didn't keep your own commitment to those who read your blog weekly".

Well I really didn't know people cared about whats happening in my life, or cared about holding me to my own commitments.. My thanks to those who sent emails..

Well, don't worry, I'm back to my blogging (though with my tail tucked under to avoid any more smacks on the bum..!). And I have a lot of things to say about the idea of "back"..

  • BACK to shows..
I'm working on a new regular Sydney show for a weekend evening. Negotiations are underway with the management and concepts are being finalised. I'll post news on this one once details are confirmed.
Rough Trade (Hers), is touring again! This time we will be down at Cube Nightclub in Canberra on Friday 22nd June. Charisma Belle, Ru Bella and myself are looking forward to the new faces and a new venue. If your in the ACT, please come along!
I'm also working on a special one-of-a-kind solo project. It's all very top secret atm, but will be developed on the side of the usual hustle and bustle, until it is ready to be performed. I wish I could tell you more, but that would ruin the surprise!

  • BACK with a Vengeance - Barry Humphries
Well I have long wanted to see Barry perform in person, as I didn't know what to expect on stage. I attended his guest lecture at WAAPA back in 1999 (?), where I was one of a number of students who walked out when he spoke in such an old-school racist way for a considerable portion of the lecture. As in my blog from late last year, I also chatted with him briefly at the Opening Night After Party of "Priscilla" - the musical, for a short time. I thought that I should watch him do his job, rather than just judge him on the person I found him to be, so I went along to his preview night of his new show..
Of course the show he has just opened in Sydney showcases his iconic characters, Dame Edna Edveridge and Sir Les Patterson, with the lesser known character, Sandy Stone. With all 3 characters appearing in the first act, it was a marvel to see the change in physical characterization get completed so quickly. Makeup, clothes, hair, body language - all changed in (almost) an instant. One thing however was quite starkly obvious to me - the vocals of Dame Edna and Sandy Stone sounded remarkably the same..
In any case, the over-the-top characters of the Dame and Sir Les were a hoot, being crass, sly, witty and left no one in the audience safe from spit and gladdies!
However, the one greatest disappointment about the evening was Sandy Stone. As with his other characters, Humphries turns a mirror on society to make commentary on the community at large. This fun and outlandish commentary is what Australians tend to like with their humour, which Dame Edna and Sir Les provide in bucket-loads!
Sandy, however, is approached from a different place as far as character development. He is based on a person in their 70's/80's and is a character who talks about his life, particularly his wife and WW2, all from a lonely ratty old couch set in a neglected nursing home.
Sandy is portrayed as such a genuine character, as we start to feel sorry for him, his wife, and all he has been through in his life. Sandy even spoke on the quality of care at nursing homes - a quite topical point as of late here in Australia. But Humphries wanted to put some jokes in there - so instead of some typical bumbly old man jokes, he resorts to offensive racist remarks to get a laugh. Few people bellowed with laughter, others embarrassingly giggle, many didn't find them funny at all. I was one of them.
Now we all do know people who talk about "Japs, Koreans, Wogs, Abbos, Yellow People, Asians and Muslims" etc, believing that there is nothing wrong with the way they think and talk. Communicating such a horribly racist mentality to others is for me not acceptable. We should be trying to educate people against this discriminatory and racist mentality whenever we see it..
Humphries set up this character Sandy to a dear old man, genuine and the kind you have compassion for. If that set-up is to communicate his racist views for another "White Australia" (and he was around at that time when that was common accepted belief) - then I wish him luck overseas, as I'm not encouraging anyone to attend/support his shows here in Oz..
The seats next to me were empty after interval - it was a co-worker of mine. When I saw him at work the next day I asked him why he left. Not surprisingly, he told me that he was not interested in listening to "crap racist jokes that crossed the line".
Here, here!
I will ever attend another one of his shows, or even show any interest in the man..
As the famous quote goes: "Never again.."

  • BACK to a Labour State Government
Now I'll only chat a moment on this. The State election earlier this year was a fizz.. Basically the Parliament remained the same after all the hoo-haa of the election campaigns. I'm, however, not complaining about it - Labour is always ahead in my vote against those nasty Liberals..
As for the federal election later this year.. Vote Labour ahead of Liberals at all costs! (ie. I'm voting Green, with my preferences to Labour..)
Go Ruddy! Go the Gillard!

  • BACK in Australia TODAY - David Hicks
For those who are not from Australia, David Hicks is one of two Aussies that were detained and sold to the Americans as "terrorists". Now if you want to know about Hicks, just search his name on the net - it's been a long 5 years worth of debate and reporting about this man, from the media, politicians and the community, and you will find information readily. Anyway, after his surprise guilty plea, complete with a plea bargain no less, (Justice anyone...?) Hicks was sentenced to only serve a few months of prison , with most of his penalty already carried out in the infamous US base at Guantanamo Bay. This man has endured a serious breach of his human rights, and with as little support from the government as possible. As an Australian citizen, our government should have supported Hicks by removing him from the illegal detainment and objecting to the Kangaroo court setup by the US military. Even the US Supreme court ruled them unjust! (it is worth noting still that no US citizen can ever be tried in these courts - the military court provides no safeguards and is "not suitable for US citizens".) Regardless of his guilt/innocence, the Howard government deserves it's condemnation for it's actions, or more accurately, lack thereof.

17 March, 2007

Family Trip - Day 4 (Final Day)

Well Sunday was my day of rest. After arriving home from the Mardi Gras party, I was resting up from the long and tiresome day before. But not my family!

They took off to the Maritime Museum in Darling Harbour. They told me that they had a fantastic time looking about at all the boats and particularly the submarine... Go figure..!

They were already packed up before they left for the day's activities, so when they arrived home, we chatted for a little while, let them get refreshed, then half popped into a taxi and the other half into my boyfriend's car, and we headed to the airport. (Note to self: Holiday groups should be a maximum of 3 so they can fit in the one car with the boyfriend and I!)

We did the self-checkin in the Qantas terminal, and headed through security.

To my surprise a good friend of mine from Perth was coming through the security at the same time and I got to catch up with him also! Such a small world sometimes..

My family sat down for a short time and had a coffee and cake together. Before we knew it, it was time to board the plane. My boyfriend and I were given "thank you" gifts and within 5 minutes we were waving them goodbye as they disappeared down the airbridge.

It was such a quick trip here, with so much packed in. It was a shame they didn't relax more than they did. As this was our wedding present to Matt & Jessie, we originally wanted them to stay for about 2 weeks with us, seeing things slowly and staying in and out of the city, but they couldn't take the time off work. Although, with my Dad and Jessie's sister Anna wanting to come along too, it turned out to be a great family holiday for them.

Well they did have a great time in Sydney, and have talked about coming back again - so I'm looking forward to it!

Now it's back to work..!